Emotional games men play

When she crumbles and eventually follows through, she submits and gives him the reins of the relationship. In a committed relationship, threatening to break up is a form of game of chicken albeit women play that more often. Early in dating, simply not replying to a text can be a game of chicken. By the time she came around, the power was all in my side and… I had already mentally moved past her. But if she really cared, chances are she will go.

And once she goes, the power is on his side. Her : No. They got a system. Instead, he plans the date to make it seem spontaneous. You : oh what a coincidence, we went through all these places and now we are just near your apartment. Maybe you tease him he is only looking for sex, or that he is a fuckboy. That way, he communicates pre-selection other beautiful women probably wanted him and that he can appreciate you for who you are on top of whatever flashy thing you got big boobs, shiny hair etc.

Of course, it will be true for some guys. So you have to judge based on other indicators you see of him. Rather than pitching commitment, resources, personal qualities, a future together, or all the other things that most men offer… He offers great sex. Either directly offers sex, or implies it with his heavily sexual undertones and mannerism.

Him : Listen, sweetheart. Feel free to go for this one if you are so inclined -just be aware of the game, and that the great sex might or might not be true in the end-. These games, when repeated over and over in a relationship, are potentially dangerous because they can semi-permanently lower her self-esteem. Games designed to devalue and lower your self-esteem are first red flags of potentially abusive men.

And abusive men can only give you one thing: abusive relationships. I have a whole article on how to play the same games back on him. But best of all is to drop all games. Dread games consist of keeping her in fear so that he can keep control of the relationship. Did he really have so well-endowed exes? Who knows. But the fact she tells her ex -lover that, is not a great sign for him.

Sadly, there is a subset of the male population in The Red Pill , a group often bordering on the misogynists, who purposefully learn how to play dread games. These games lead to toxic relationships. Luckily, this website helps you spot value-taking men and abusers early and reliably, so you can avoid them. These are women who always end up with men who need to be saved and rescued. The best men at this game though do have some appealing traits. Their appeal is to look like a diamond in the rough.

Some of them can seem fearlessly intelligent, scornful and angry at society, somewhat melancholic, sad and with an attractive artistic streak. Reviewer Author. She has special interest in the emotional and behavioral issues of both children and adults. Shreshtha has previosuly worked as a lecturer, published various research papers and contributed to magazines. She provides long distance teleconsultation in English, Hindi and Bengali. Ratika has experience writing in various fields including finance, education, lifestyle, and entertainment.

She is inquisitive about human relationships and likes to study people and how they manage their relationships, during her freetime. At MomJunction, Ratika writes insightful and informative articles on He blames you for your disagreements. He blames you for his failures. He blames you for yelling at you. He blames you for your paranoia. Because in their eyes, they are flawless. This is one of their common weapons on their ultimate quest for power.

So, when this happens, it is best to immediately face them head on and strike them with the stone-cold truth. Image: Franz Kais. The Power Of Silence. Author Recent Posts. Stephanie Reeds. A professional writer with many years of experience in the fields of psychology, human relationships, science, and spirituality.